Things I've made, for the people who needed them.
Everything I build starts the same way: someone in my life needed it and nothing like it existed, so I wrote it down. That's how the Partner Guide started. That's how United Spoonies™ started. That's how the book started.
This is where the ones I've made for that audience live — the free guide meant for both people to read together, and the longer paid guide for the supporter to read alone. The methodology and tools for the women themselves stay free at unitedspoonies.com — always.
What I've written so far.
You're Still Here
For the woman with chronic illness, and the people reading next to her.
Twenty-six pages, written to be read together. Six short sections. Each one ends with a question for the two of you to sit with. For the conversations that don't happen on their own — the ones in the gap between her and the people who love her.
Get the guideThe Partner Guide: The Part She Can't Explain
For the person who loves someone with chronic illness.
Twelve short chapters across three sections — what she's actually carrying, what you're carrying, and what you can do together. Each chapter ends with one small thing to try, not homework. Includes The 8-Minute Version, a shorter companion for the days when even ten minutes feels like a lot. I wrote it because my own husband needed it and nothing like it existed.
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